Discover Your Truth Unearth Your Soul
11:29 AM by Roxy
Here is one man's perspective on the cheating heart of a Woman|
A man comes home from work to find out his woman has been stepping out on him in the pursuit of nightly pleasures...he sits down at work thinking about what he seen the night before as his mind begins to go crazy...you are probably wondering what lead up to these two scenarios...one represents her way of finding a solution while the other represents a man thinking over his problem...sometimes we are blind to what causes problems in our relations with each other...In this situation a woman cheats on her husband because of problems in their marriage so she goes outside of it to find a solution (do you think this is a good course of action?)...believe it or not many do step out of their relationships thinking cheating solves the problem...most would say she is this or she is that but do we really know the underlying cause of this problematic effect of cheating? There are a few reasons why a woman would do such a thing...but I will explain very briefly why men cheat...simply put most men cheat for the thrill and to add to his numbers (the more women you have the more respected and envied amongst other men you are)...we have a conquering nature about us...now back to her...a woman would cheat because of a lack of attention, security, affection, finance, good sex, etc,etc and etc. Those are just a few examples...to the guy trying to figure out why she cheated and why it happened...it is a lot to think about especially if you live with her...first try to understand what went wrong...think back to your actions or what you could have done better...we tend to ignore subtle signs that our women send us on a daily basis...some of them are more verbal than others. But being our natural selves (visual creatures) we do not fully operate on a verbal level with our women...YES! she is more verbal and in-tuned with her feelings than we are...be aware though that just as much as she is verbal she is also prone to be very non-verbal...so trying to figure her out by using visual clues
alone is not very helpful...Our goal is to try to understand her needs and wants...think about her and what makes her happy or content but do not stop there...if you know your lady likes a certain type of color get her some flowers in that color. You just killed two birds with one stone...first you told her in a non verbal way that you do pay attention to her and giving her flowers is a form of showing your affection for her. Now I am not saying this will stop her from cheating but your goal from the first day you meet her is to make her think about you only and YOU ONLY!...do nice things for her...listen to her...ask her questions not about who she's been with but what are some of her favorite things...and most of all pay attention to details...These are a few things that women want from her man...but most of all she wants an emotional connection...once you lose her emotionally her body will follow...then again she can be a thrill seeker it all depends on who she is as a person.
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Tags: love, relationships, sex