The Real Me Is Truth and Love

I would love to be inside the head of a man if only to try to understand their concept of parental ownership. In other words, I'd like to see who they think that kid belongs to-you know, the one who carries 1/2 daddy's DNA .

A good amount of men out there seem to think that the baby belongs to the woman, her choice to have it so its her problem.  They think abortion is the simple answer,  but I say why don't you go and sit on a table and have the products of conception scraped out of your body.

Simply put, that baby is as much yours as is it hers.  You went half on the fun part (good things don't last long) so now you have to be that man and face up to the consequences.  Fight for the right to see your child don't let anyone get in your way- no, not even mommy.  Everything that happens in your child's life is directly related to your absence or presence.   Dad, you affect your child's life even when you are not there.  Our boys are lost without your guidance and our girls are loose without your enforcement of rules.

Don't think for one second, that child doesn't need you.  If a child didn't need a dad,  if is there was no purpose for men, evolution would have eliminated them already.  Dad one of your greatest achievement in life a will be learning how to father your children.  The desire to father may not come naturally; keep trying, eventually you will see all your struggles were for a good reason.