The Real Me Is Truth and Love

We are suppose to spend our childhood years practicng at becoming adults; play pretend and learn from from our mistakes.  Sex games are one of the adults activities I say children definately don't need to play or rehearse in any form.  Yet we all know some little kid, who is just a little too perverted for our own tastes.  We know some little kid who got caught, touching another, inappropriately.

I use to wish grown ups could find a better way of describing the process of having sex.  Apparently, anyone can have sex as long as they have the right tools.  Parents don't need to tell kids how to have sex or when to  have sex they need to tell them why.

Why are we having sex?  Is it what you really want?  Who created this desire, this want, to have sex?   I say want because the only people who NEED TO HAVE SEX are those seeking to make a family.  Looking at sex from a biological, perspective, the sole purpose of sex is reproduction.

Sex is an expression of love, so if you love someone then you should have sex right?

When we are children we beleive in the fairytales, Cinderella meets the Prince etc etc they live happily ever after.  Cinderella could just fall in love with any old Prince, she could afford to do that in the books but do you really think you can pull that off in this new decade?

 Lets seperate the myth, from the truth and understand that you have to THINK AND FEEL.  We are no longer dumb animals, we can choose to love or not love.  Choose to love and not have sex, choose to have sex when we are ready for the full consequences.